ARROW-6478: [C++] Revert to jemalloc stable-4 until we understand 5.2.x performance issues

I propose we revert to the jemalloc 4.x stable branch where we were before until we understand how to get the performance we need for our workloads from 5.x. See upstream issue jemalloc/jemalloc#1621

Closes #5297 from wesm/ARROW-6417-jemalloc and squashes the following commits:

eee3fbc <Wes McKinney> Add jemalloc pinned version to versions.txt
a68f1a3 <Wes McKinney> Revert to jemalloc stable-4

Authored-by: Wes McKinney <wesm+git@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Wes McKinney <wesm+git@apache.org>

Author: wesm

cpp/cmake_modules/ThirdpartyToolchain.cmake

@@ -1376,19 +1376,16 @@ if(ARROW_JEMALLOC)
       "${JEMALLOC_PREFIX}/lib/libjemalloc_pic${CMAKE_STATIC_LIBRARY_SUFFIX}")
   externalproject_add(
     jemalloc_ep
-    URL ${JEMALLOC_SOURCE_URL}
+    URL ${CMAKE_CURRENT_SOURCE_DIR}/thirdparty/jemalloc/${JEMALLOC_VERSION}.tar.gz
     PATCH_COMMAND touch doc/jemalloc.3 doc/jemalloc.html
-    CONFIGURE_COMMAND ./configure
+    CONFIGURE_COMMAND ./autogen.sh
                       "AR=${CMAKE_AR}"
                       "CC=${CMAKE_C_COMPILER}"
                       "--prefix=${JEMALLOC_PREFIX}"
                       "--with-jemalloc-prefix=je_arrow_"
                       "--with-private-namespace=je_arrow_private_"
-                      "--without-export"
-                      # Don't override operator new()
-                      "--disable-cxx" "--disable-libdl"
-                      # See https://github.com/jemalloc/jemalloc/issues/1237
-                      "--disable-initial-exec-tls" ${EP_LOG_OPTIONS}
+                      "--disable-tls"
+                      ${EP_LOG_OPTIONS}
     BUILD_IN_SOURCE 1
     BUILD_COMMAND ${MAKE} ${MAKE_BUILD_ARGS}
     BUILD_BYPRODUCTS "${JEMALLOC_STATIC_LIB}"

cpp/thirdparty/jemalloc/17c897976c60b0e6e4f4a365c751027244dada7a.tar.gz

@@ -35,7 +35,7 @@ GFLAGS_VERSION=v2.2.0
 GLOG_VERSION=v0.3.5
 GRPC_VERSION=v1.20.0
 GTEST_VERSION=1.8.1
-JEMALLOC_VERSION=5.2.0
+JEMALLOC_VERSION=17c897976c60b0e6e4f4a365c751027244dada7a
 LZ4_VERSION=v1.8.3
 ORC_VERSION=1.5.5
 PROTOBUF_VERSION=v3.7.1
@@ -68,7 +68,6 @@ DEPENDENCIES=(
   "ARROW_GLOG_URL glog-${GLOG_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/google/glog/archive/${GLOG_VERSION}.tar.gz"
   "ARROW_GRPC_URL grpc-${GRPC_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/grpc/grpc/archive/${GRPC_VERSION}.tar.gz"
   "ARROW_GTEST_URL gtest-${GTEST_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/google/googletest/archive/release-${GTEST_VERSION}.tar.gz"
-  "ARROW_JEMALLOC_URL jemalloc-${JEMALLOC_VERSION}.tar.bz2 https://github.com/jemalloc/jemalloc/releases/download/${JEMALLOC_VERSION}/jemalloc-${JEMALLOC_VERSION}.tar.bz2"
   "ARROW_LZ4_URL lz4-${LZ4_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/lz4/lz4/archive/${LZ4_VERSION}.tar.gz"
   "ARROW_ORC_URL orc-${ORC_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/apache/orc/archive/rel/release-${ORC_VERSION}.tar.gz"
   "ARROW_PROTOBUF_URL protobuf-${PROTOBUF_VERSION}.tar.gz https://github.com/google/protobuf/releases/download/${PROTOBUF_VERSION}/protobuf-all-${PROTOBUF_VERSION:1}.tar.gz"