[Improve][jdbc] improvement jdbc read/write performance

[zoudaokoulife]

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Description

when test the jdbc connector，we find some function take more time. and compare to datax, at one parall the bps less then it.
target: one parall bps ~= datax, and multi parall better then it

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[FlechazoW]

pr merged. close as #1488