[C++][Compute] GroupBy: add parallelism to hash group by

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Implement parallel processing for hash group by. 
Make sure it works well (scales) for different cardinalities of groups.

Reporter: Michal Nowakiewicz / @michalursa

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• [C++] Query engine umbrella issue (is a child of)

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Michal Nowakiewicz / @michalursa:
Parallelism is implemented in hash group by. What remains is to benchmark to see how well it behaves for a set of varying dimensions, fix performance issues, investigate improvements for different cardinalities of groups, implement the improvements. 

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