Change the way how arrow reads IPC buffered files

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The PR#14226, that solves ARROW-17599, is changing a bit the logic for reading parquet buffered files through async FileReader::RecordBatchGenerator.  Initially those changes were thought for the parquet file reader, but we need to reflect those same changes for the ipc file reader as well.

The goal for this ticket is to change the ipc reader for buffered files in the same way is being defined by the PR#14226.

Reporter: Percy Camilo Triveño Aucahuasi / @aucahuasi
Assignee: Percy Camilo Triveño Aucahuasi / @aucahuasi

_{Note: This issue was originally created as ARROW-18065. Please see the migration documentation for further details.}

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