Replace `ObjectStoreRegistry` with `object_store`'s new `ObjectStoreRegistry`

[criccomini]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

I'm working with the object_store folks on upstreaming DataFusion's ObjectStoreRegistry implementation. Part of the goal is that DataFusion would adopt this new registry. I want to check with y'all that the object_store version meets your needs.

The PR is here:

apache/arrow-rs-object-store#348

The implementation is largely the same, but there have been a few tweaks:

• Replaced dashmap with an RWLock+HashMap to remove dashmap dependency
• Remove ObjectStoreUrl
• Add list_urls method
• Use object_store::parse_url to create an ObjectStore on get_store cache miss (if possible)
• Adds registry tests
• Minor doc updates
• get_store returns an Option now instead of Result

Would you guys be open to adopting this new version?

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