When the content of the sent message is 5M, it will appear that the current Topic can no longer send the message

[liudezhi2098]

Describe the bug
By default config , when the content of the sent message is 5M, it will appear that the current topic can no longer send the message.

Send a message

byte[] data = new byte[5 * 1024 * 1024];
producer.newMessage().value(data).send();

bookie has always been wrong io.netty.handler.codec.TooLongFrameException: Adjusted frame length exceeds 5242880: 5242992 - discarded

bookie-io-1-26] ERROR org.apache.bookkeeper.proto.BookieRequestHandler - Unhandled exception occurred in I/O thread or handler
io.netty.handler.codec.TooLongFrameException: Adjusted frame length exceeds 5242880: 5242992 - discarded
        at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.fail(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:513) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.failIfNecessary(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:491) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.exceededFrameLength(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:378) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.decode(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:421) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.decode(LengthFieldBasedFrameDecoder.java:334) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.decodeRemovalReentryProtection(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:503) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.callDecode(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:442) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.handler.codec.ByteToMessageDecoder.channelRead(ByteToMessageDecoder.java:281) ~[io.netty-netty-codec-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]
        at io.netty.channel.AbstractChannelHandlerContext.invokeChannelRead(AbstractChannelHandlerContext.java:374) [io.netty-netty-transport-4.1.43.Final.jar:4.1.43.Final]

Bookie default configuration nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes is 5242880
but broker set NettyMaxFrameSizeBytes （conf.getMaxMessageSize() Commands.MESSAGE_SIZE_FRAME_PADDING);

bk_server.conf
# The maximum netty frame size in bytes. Any message received larger than this will be rejeted. Default value is 5MB.
# nettyMaxFrameSizeBytes=5242880

broker.conf
# Max size of messages.
maxMessageSize=5242880

So the broker thinks that the 5M message can be sent normally, but the bookie thinks it has exceeded the length, and bkclient will keep retrying.