test: demand control non-clobbery

[aaronArinder]

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adds a test that should fail if we change out dashmap for something dangerous when doing demand control (we probably wouldn't, but for whatever reason this is a weird itch for me)

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[carodewig]

Cherry-picked the commit because I made the mistake of rebasing 😱