Improve `go-update-dep-all.sh`

[julienrbrt]

          https://github.com/cosmos/cosmos-sdk/actions/runs/4047744533/jobs/6962151076

I think our script go mod update all is fundamentally broken, as it updates all the dependencies, regardless if they are actually needed or not.
Here, for instance, we use 0.47-rc1 so it should not have updated this to v1.4.4 (as there is no reason to)

Originally posted by @julienrbrt in #14838 (comment)

[julienrbrt]

Mea-culpa. After reading more about it, it seems not bad to upgrade indirect dependencies even if the direct dependencies do not require them. This is thus not an issue, and the update in #14908, not needed.