Docs: update the default recommended requirements for conda

[caic99]

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[mohanchen]

LGTM

[caic99]

ABACUS installed by conda is able to deliver similar performance compared with GNU toolchain (test report on davidson method).
However, there are errors on some ELPA test cases (test report). We will track it on another issue.