quic: fix socket UAF during port migration

[danzh2010]

Commit Message: the probing socket is released when port migration fails. If this happens in response to an incoming packet during an I/O event, the follow socket read could cause use-after-free.

[2024-01-08 16:30:53.386][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:104] Caught Segmentation fault, suspect faulting address 0x0
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.387][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:91] Backtrace (use tools/stack_decode.py to get line numbers):
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.387][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:92] Envoy version: 0/1.29.0-dev/test/DEBUG/BoringSSL
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.413][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #0: Envoy::SignalAction::sigHandler() [0x55bb876d499e]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.413][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:98] #1: [0x7f55fbf92510]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.440][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #2: Envoy::Network::Utility::readPacketsFromSocket() [0x55bb875de0ef]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.466][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #3: Envoy::Quic::EnvoyQuicClientConnection::onFileEvent() [0x55bb8663e1eb]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.492][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #4: Envoy::Quic::EnvoyQuicClientConnection::setUpConnectionSocket()::$_0::operator()() [0x55bb8663f192]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.518][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #5: std::__invoke_impl<>() [0x55bb8663f151]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.544][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #6: std::__invoke_r<>() [0x55bb8663f0e2]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.569][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #7: std::_Function_handler<>::_M_invoke() [0x55bb8663efc2]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.595][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #8: std::function<>::operator()() [0x55bb85cb8f44]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.621][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #9: Envoy::Event::DispatcherImpl::createFileEvent()::$_5::operator()() [0x55bb8722560f]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.648][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #10: std::__invoke_impl<>() [0x55bb872255c1]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.674][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #11: std::__invoke_r<>() [0x55bb87225562]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.700][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #12: std::_Function_handler<>::_M_invoke() [0x55bb872253e2]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.700][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #13: std::function<>::operator()() [0x55bb85cb8f44]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.726][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #14: Envoy::Event::FileEventImpl::mergeInjectedEventsAndRunCb() [0x55bb872358ec]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.752][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #15: Envoy::Event::FileEventImpl::assignEvents()::$_1::operator()() [0x55bb87235ed1]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.778][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #16: Envoy::Event::FileEventImpl::assignEvents()::$_1::__invoke() [0x55bb87235949]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.804][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #17: event_persist_closure [0x55bb87fab72b]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.830][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #18: event_process_active_single_queue [0x55bb87faada2]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.856][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #19: event_process_active [0x55bb87fa56c8]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.882][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #20: event_base_loop [0x55bb87fa45cc]
[2024-01-08 16:30:53.908][12][critical][backtrace] [./source/server/backtrace.h:96] #21: Envoy::Event::LibeventScheduler::run() [0x55bb8760a59f]

Risk Level: low
Testing: new unit test
Docs Changes: N/A
Release Notes: Yes
Platform Specific Features: N/A

[danzh2010]

/assign @RyanTheOptimist
cc @abeyad

[danzh2010]

cc @RenjieTang

[RenjieTang]

Thanks for the fix Dan!

[abeyad]

This looks great, thanks so much @danzh2010 !
cc @fredyw FYI

[danzh2010]

/retest

[RyanTheOptimist]

Please update the changelog to mention this fix.

[danzh2010]

Please update the changelog to mention this fix.

done

[danzh2010]

/retest