Bump dependencies / ESM / bundle with esbuild

[CarsonF]

• Run on Node v12 -> v20
• Bundle with esbuild instead of @vercel/ncc
  Never even heard of ncc until this, not really sure their purpose.
  esbuild is definitely one of the new standards.
• Bump all libraries (solves legacy @actions/core warnings set-output is deprecated #34)
• Opted into more ESM.
  Though the build is still CJS, as that's what @actions/core emits for now.
  Some work went into mocking ESM modules for Jest, but I believe the result is a nicer experience anyways.
• Bump some of the edgedb package versions referenced in tests to more recent ones
• Support (forward) arm64 (aarch64) architecture

Fixes #34

I really tried to limit any logical changes here, since this is so large in other ways.
I would like to refactor further in later PRs if allowed.

[elprans]

Tests seem to be failing with

ReferenceError: require is not defined in ES module scope, you can use import instead
This file is being treated as an ES module because it has a '.js' file extension and '/home/runner/work/setup-edgedb/setup-edgedb/package.json' contains "type": "module". To treat it as a CommonJS script, rename it to use the '.cjs' file extension.

[CarsonF]

Thanks for approving CI. I had a hard time with the test suite since there's not a binary for M1/ARM chips.
Let me address CI failures.

[elprans]

there's not a binary for M1/ARM chips

Which binary? Both server and CLI have native m1 and linux aarch64 builds (though possibly not ancient releases that might be referred to in the tests, so try using a more recent server/CLI version there).

[CarsonF]

● setup-edgedb › Installs CLI

This action does not support the arm64 architecture

  236 |     distArch = 'x86_64'
  237 |   } else {
> 238 |     throw Error(`This action does not support the ${arch} architecture`)
      |           ^
  239 |   }
  240 |
  241 |   return `${distArch}-${distPlatform}`

  at Module.getBaseDist (src/main.ts:238:11)
  at Object.<anonymous> (__tests__/setup.test.ts:79:27)

https://github.com/edgedb/setup-edgedb/blob/main/src/main.ts#L230
https://github.com/edgedb/setup-edgedb/blob/main/__tests__/setup.test.ts#L92

[elprans]

Oh, feel free to add arm64, normalizing to aarch64, it should work fine

[CarsonF]

@elprans I think I've fixed the problems. Trigger CI for me?

[CarsonF]

Thanks, will continue

[CarsonF]

Everything looks good here. Ready for review/merge when able 😄

[elprans]

LGTM! Thanks for working on this!