More error handling, remove build hacks for arm64

• Remove hacks for psycopg2-binary dependency that were required to support apple arm64 images
• Handle cloudtrails visible-but-not-accessible from sub-accounts in an organization
• Ignore deleted sns subscriptions
• Improve attr diffing to include synthesized attributes
• Use non-zero exit code for imports that had an error
• Use provider_account_id in table rebuilding