Document OHTTP relay random selection guidance

[bc1cindy]

Fixed relay order creates a fingerprintable pattern at the network layer, even though OHTTP protects the user's IP. Document that callers should select relays randomly and track failed ones for resilience, following the existing RelayManager implementation in payjoin-cli.

Claude sonnet 4.6 helped me doing the research of the issue.

Re: #1328

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[DanGould]

This is the right direction but raised some questions I don't have the answers for yet about whether the pattern this is documenting is actually a desirable one sufficient for reference.

[bc1cindy]

I'm feeling this is blocked until we reach #1385

[DanGould]

I think we've got answers for #1385 @bc1cindy

but I'm skeptical that this PR actually closes #1328 until it employs the consensus opinions of #1385

Because of that I edited your OP to say "Re: " instead of "Closes" so that the issue stays open. I welcome another PR to address the issue but want to merge this for the sake of triage and keeping it moving to close the thread.