need lmtp socket to be _smtpd writable

Signed-off-by: Aisha Tammy <excision@bsd.ac>

always reload relayd as it needs upto date ocsp

Signed-off-by: Aisha Tammy <excision@bsd.ac>

local to local and local to outside mails

small cleanup in installation

added linking sendmail for gnupg bug

swaped files positions which were messed up

moved mailname to nsd

fixed typo in virtual-regen