allow customisation of HOST and PORT env vars in adapter-node

[Conduitry]

Resolves #1752.

I'm definitely open to other names for this configuration, because I'm not thrilled on what I currently have. If someone has a better idea of what to say in the adapter's readme, I'd also like to hear about that.

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